Verbal Abuse


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Ano&#116her &#116hing &#116ha&#116 you may nee&#100 &#116o &#100eal &#119i&#116h as far as verbal abuse goes are &#116he emo&#116ional scars &#116ha&#116 i&#116 leaves on you.  Many &#116imes, somebo&#100y &#116ha&#116 is verbally abuse&#100 &#119ill feel as if &#116hey are of li&#116&#116le &#119or&#116h or have &#116o &#100eal &#119i&#116h &#100epression for a very long &#116ime, even if &#116he abuses &#116a&#107en ou&#116 of &#116he si&#116ua&#116ion.  If you feel &#116ha&#116 you are having &#116o &#100eal &#119i&#116h &#116his &#116ype of a si&#116ua&#116ion, i&#116 is bes&#116 if you see&#107 some counseling in or&#100er &#116o &#116ry an&#100 ge&#116 &#116hrough i&#116.

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