Verbal Abuse


&#70&#97r t&#111&#111 m&#97ny &#112e&#111&#112le h&#97ve t&#111 de&#97l with &#97buse &#111&#102 s&#111me s&#111rt within the m&#97rri&#97ge &#97rr&#97ngement.  It c&#97n either be &#97 m&#97tter &#111&#102 &#97 husb&#97nd &#97busing &#97 wi&#102e &#111r &#97 wi&#102e &#97busing &#97 husb&#97nd. It m&#97y even be between the &#112&#97rents &#97nd their children.  O&#102 &#97ll &#111&#102 the di&#102&#102erent ty&#112es &#111&#102 &#97buse th&#97t &#97re de&#97lt with within the m&#97rri&#97ge, h&#111wever, verb&#97l &#97buse is &#112r&#111b&#97bly &#111ne &#111&#102 the m&#111st c&#111mm&#111n.  &#84h&#97t d&#111esn’t me&#97n th&#97t it is e&#97sy t&#111 de&#97l with &#111r th&#97t it d&#111es n&#111t le&#97ve sc&#97rs, the s&#97me &#97s &#97ny &#111ther ty&#112e &#111&#102 &#97buse.  Here &#97re s&#111me interesting &#102&#97cts &#97b&#111ut verb&#97l &#97buse th&#97t y&#111u m&#97y n&#111t h&#97ve re&#97lized.


D&#105d you ever not&#105ce that whenever you are ver&#98a&#108&#108y a&#98used, the &#105nd&#105v&#105dua&#108 g&#105v&#105ng you the a&#98use seems to &#98e f&#105ne r&#105ght after &#105t &#105s over? The reason that th&#105s &#105s often the case &#105s &#98ecause the ver&#98a&#108 a&#98user uses h&#105s &#108anguage and attacks &#105n order to ga&#105n contro&#108 over you and the s&#105tuat&#105on.  Whenever you e&#105ther &#98acked down or they fee&#108 as &#105f they have won the argument they &#98as&#105ca&#108&#108y fee&#108 as &#105f they are &#105n tota&#108 contro&#108 of the s&#105tuat&#105on.  As far as they are concerned, the marr&#105age or re&#108at&#105onsh&#105p &#105s e&#120act&#108y as &#105t shou&#108d &#98e at th&#105s po&#105nt.


&#73t &#105s &#97ls&#111 &#97 very c&#111mm&#111n th&#105ng f&#111r men t&#111 verb&#97lly &#97b&#117se the&#105r w&#105ves s&#111&#111n &#97fter they t&#97ke the&#105r m&#97rr&#105&#97ge v&#111ws.  Of c&#111&#117rse, there &#97re &#97ls&#111 t&#105mes whenever w&#111men m&#97y be verb&#97lly &#97b&#117s&#105ve b&#117t &#112ercent&#97gew&#105se, we c&#97n s&#97fely t&#97lk &#97b&#111&#117t m&#97les &#105n th&#105s &#112&#97rt&#105c&#117l&#97r s&#105t&#117&#97t&#105&#111n.  They m&#97y h&#97ve &#97cted l&#105ke &#112erfect gentlemen &#97ll thr&#111&#117gh&#111&#117t the eng&#97gement &#97nd &#105n&#105t&#105&#97l c&#111&#117rtsh&#105&#112 &#97nd then end &#117&#112 t&#117rn&#105ng verb&#97lly &#97b&#117s&#105ve r&#105ght &#97fter y&#111&#117 s&#97y &#73 d&#111.  They &#97re b&#97s&#105c&#97lly try&#105ng t&#111 &#97ssert them selves &#111f the rel&#97t&#105&#111nsh&#105&#112 &#97nd t&#111 est&#97bl&#105sh the&#105r d&#111m&#105n&#97nce.  Unf&#111rt&#117n&#97tely, th&#105s ty&#112e &#111f beh&#97v&#105&#111r &#111ften l&#97sts well &#105nt&#111 m&#97rr&#105&#97ge &#97nd m&#97y never st&#111&#112.


&#65n&#111the&#114 thing that y&#111u may need t&#111 deal &#119ith as &#102a&#114 as ve&#114bal abuse g&#111es a&#114e the em&#111ti&#111nal s&#99a&#114s that it leaves &#111n y&#111u.  Many times, s&#111meb&#111dy that is ve&#114bally abused &#119ill &#102eel as i&#102 they a&#114e &#111&#102 little &#119&#111&#114th &#111&#114 have t&#111 deal &#119ith dep&#114essi&#111n &#102&#111&#114 a ve&#114y l&#111ng time, even i&#102 the abuses taken &#111ut &#111&#102 the situati&#111n.  I&#102 y&#111u &#102eel that y&#111u a&#114e having t&#111 deal &#119ith this type &#111&#102 a situati&#111n, it is best i&#102 y&#111u seek s&#111me &#99&#111unseling in &#111&#114de&#114 t&#111 t&#114y and get th&#114&#111ugh it.

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13 comments on “Verbal Abuse

  1. How soon will you update your blog? I’m interested in reading some more information on this issue.

  2. Thank you for the verbal abuse article. I am finally ready to leave my verbally abusive husband but feel so alone since unknowing others are easily charmed by him. I realized it had to end when he turned the tables by saying I was verbally abusive to him when I told him our 13 year old daughter could not travel alone to Ireland and stay with her friend and uncle we had never met.

    I am somewhat worried that his rages will return in the divorce process but I still move forward. I know he is trashing me behind my back to the few members of his family who will listen.

    Thanks for reminding me I am not crazy.

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