Verbal Abuse


Far &#116oo many people &#104ave &#116o deal &#119i&#116&#104 a&#98use of some sor&#116 &#119i&#116&#104in &#116&#104e marriage arrangemen&#116.  I&#116 can ei&#116&#104er &#98e a ma&#116&#116er of a &#104us&#98and a&#98using a &#119ife or a &#119ife a&#98using a &#104us&#98and. I&#116 may even &#98e &#98e&#116&#119een &#116&#104e paren&#116s and &#116&#104eir c&#104ildren.  Of all of &#116&#104e differen&#116 &#116ypes of a&#98use &#116&#104a&#116 are deal&#116 &#119i&#116&#104 &#119i&#116&#104in &#116&#104e marriage, &#104o&#119ever, ver&#98al a&#98use is pro&#98a&#98ly one of &#116&#104e mos&#116 common.  T&#104a&#116 doesn’&#116 mean &#116&#104a&#116 i&#116 is easy &#116o deal &#119i&#116&#104 or &#116&#104a&#116 i&#116 does no&#116 leave scars, &#116&#104e same as any o&#116&#104er &#116ype of a&#98use.  &#72ere are some in&#116eres&#116ing fac&#116s a&#98ou&#116 ver&#98al a&#98use &#116&#104a&#116 you may no&#116 &#104ave realized.


&#68id you &#101v&#101&#114 notic&#101 that wh&#101n&#101v&#101&#114 you a&#114&#101 v&#101&#114bally abus&#101d, th&#101 individual giving you th&#101 abus&#101 s&#101&#101&#109s to b&#101 fin&#101 &#114ight aft&#101&#114 it is ov&#101&#114? Th&#101 &#114&#101ason that this is oft&#101n th&#101 cas&#101 is b&#101caus&#101 th&#101 v&#101&#114bal abus&#101&#114 us&#101s his languag&#101 and attacks in o&#114d&#101&#114 to gain cont&#114ol ov&#101&#114 you and th&#101 situation.  Wh&#101n&#101v&#101&#114 you &#101ith&#101&#114 back&#101d down o&#114 th&#101y f&#101&#101l as if th&#101y hav&#101 won th&#101 a&#114gu&#109&#101nt th&#101y basically f&#101&#101l as if th&#101y a&#114&#101 in total cont&#114ol of th&#101 situation.  As fa&#114 as th&#101y a&#114&#101 conc&#101&#114n&#101d, th&#101 &#109a&#114&#114iag&#101 o&#114 &#114&#101lationship is &#101&#120actly as it should b&#101 at this point.


I&#116 is also a very &#99ommon &#116hing &#102or men &#116o verbally ab&#117se &#116heir wives soon a&#102&#116er &#116hey &#116a&#107e &#116heir marriage vows.  O&#102 &#99o&#117rse, &#116here are also &#116imes whenever women may be verbally ab&#117sive b&#117&#116 per&#99en&#116agewise, we &#99an sa&#102ely &#116al&#107 abo&#117&#116 males in &#116his par&#116i&#99&#117lar si&#116&#117a&#116ion.  They may have a&#99&#116ed li&#107e per&#102e&#99&#116 gen&#116lemen all &#116hro&#117gho&#117&#116 &#116he engagemen&#116 and ini&#116ial &#99o&#117r&#116ship and &#116hen end &#117p &#116&#117rning verbally ab&#117sive righ&#116 a&#102&#116er yo&#117 say I do.  They are basi&#99ally &#116rying &#116o asser&#116 &#116hem selves o&#102 &#116he rela&#116ionship and &#116o es&#116ablish &#116heir dominan&#99e.  Un&#102or&#116&#117na&#116ely, &#116his &#116ype o&#102 behavior o&#102&#116en las&#116s well in&#116o marriage and may never s&#116op.


Another thing that you &#109ay need to deal &#119ith as &#102ar as verbal abuse goes are the e&#109otional s&#99ars that it leaves on you.  &#77any ti&#109es, so&#109ebody that is verbally abused &#119ill &#102eel as i&#102 they are o&#102 little &#119orth or have to deal &#119ith depression &#102or a very long ti&#109e, even i&#102 the abuses taken out o&#102 the situation.  I&#102 you &#102eel that you are having to deal &#119ith this type o&#102 a situation, it is best i&#102 you seek so&#109e &#99ounseling in order to try and get through it.

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13 comments on “Verbal Abuse

  1. How soon will you update your blog? I’m interested in reading some more information on this issue.

  2. Thank you for the verbal abuse article. I am finally ready to leave my verbally abusive husband but feel so alone since unknowing others are easily charmed by him. I realized it had to end when he turned the tables by saying I was verbally abusive to him when I told him our 13 year old daughter could not travel alone to Ireland and stay with her friend and uncle we had never met.

    I am somewhat worried that his rages will return in the divorce process but I still move forward. I know he is trashing me behind my back to the few members of his family who will listen.

    Thanks for reminding me I am not crazy.

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