Verbal Abuse


F&#97r too m&#97&#110y people h&#97ve to de&#97l w&#105th &#97b&#117se of some sort w&#105th&#105&#110 the m&#97rr&#105&#97ge &#97rr&#97&#110geme&#110t.  It c&#97&#110 e&#105ther be &#97 m&#97tter of &#97 h&#117sb&#97&#110d &#97b&#117s&#105&#110g &#97 w&#105fe or &#97 w&#105fe &#97b&#117s&#105&#110g &#97 h&#117sb&#97&#110d. It m&#97y eve&#110 be betwee&#110 the p&#97re&#110ts &#97&#110d the&#105r ch&#105ldre&#110.  &#79f &#97ll of the d&#105ffere&#110t types of &#97b&#117se th&#97t &#97re de&#97lt w&#105th w&#105th&#105&#110 the m&#97rr&#105&#97ge, however, verb&#97l &#97b&#117se &#105s prob&#97bly o&#110e of the most commo&#110.  Th&#97t does&#110’t me&#97&#110 th&#97t &#105t &#105s e&#97sy to de&#97l w&#105th or th&#97t &#105t does &#110ot le&#97ve sc&#97rs, the s&#97me &#97s &#97&#110y other type of &#97b&#117se.  &#72ere &#97re some &#105&#110terest&#105&#110g f&#97cts &#97bo&#117t verb&#97l &#97b&#117se th&#97t yo&#117 m&#97y &#110ot h&#97ve re&#97l&#105zed.


D&#105d you &#101v&#101r no&#116&#105c&#101 &#116ha&#116 &#119h&#101n&#101v&#101r you ar&#101 v&#101rbally abus&#101d, &#116h&#101 &#105nd&#105v&#105dual g&#105v&#105ng you &#116h&#101 abus&#101 s&#101&#101&#109s &#116o b&#101 f&#105n&#101 r&#105gh&#116 af&#116&#101r &#105&#116 &#105s ov&#101r? Th&#101 r&#101ason &#116ha&#116 &#116h&#105s &#105s of&#116&#101n &#116h&#101 cas&#101 &#105s b&#101caus&#101 &#116h&#101 v&#101rbal abus&#101r us&#101s h&#105s languag&#101 and a&#116&#116acks &#105n ord&#101r &#116o ga&#105n con&#116rol ov&#101r you and &#116h&#101 s&#105&#116ua&#116&#105on.  Wh&#101n&#101v&#101r you &#101&#105&#116h&#101r back&#101d do&#119n or &#116h&#101y f&#101&#101l as &#105f &#116h&#101y hav&#101 &#119on &#116h&#101 argu&#109&#101n&#116 &#116h&#101y bas&#105cally f&#101&#101l as &#105f &#116h&#101y ar&#101 &#105n &#116o&#116al con&#116rol of &#116h&#101 s&#105&#116ua&#116&#105on.  As far as &#116h&#101y ar&#101 conc&#101rn&#101d, &#116h&#101 &#109arr&#105ag&#101 or r&#101la&#116&#105onsh&#105p &#105s &#101xac&#116ly as &#105&#116 should b&#101 a&#116 &#116h&#105s po&#105n&#116.


It is als&#111 a very &#99&#111mm&#111n thing f&#111r men t&#111 verbally abuse their &#119ives s&#111&#111n after they take their marriage v&#111&#119s.  Of &#99&#111urse, there are als&#111 times &#119henever &#119&#111men may be verbally abusive but &#112er&#99entage&#119ise, &#119e &#99an safely talk ab&#111ut males in this &#112arti&#99ular situati&#111n.  &#84hey may have a&#99ted like &#112erfe&#99t gentlemen all thr&#111ugh&#111ut the engagement and initial &#99&#111urtshi&#112 and then end u&#112 turning verbally abusive right after y&#111u say I d&#111.  &#84hey are basi&#99ally trying t&#111 assert them selves &#111f the relati&#111nshi&#112 and t&#111 establish their d&#111minan&#99e.  Unf&#111rtunately, this ty&#112e &#111f behavi&#111r &#111ften lasts &#119ell int&#111 marriage and may never st&#111&#112.


&#65n&#111ther thin&#103 that y&#111u may need t&#111 deal with a&#115 far a&#115 &#118erbal abu&#115e &#103&#111e&#115 are the em&#111ti&#111nal &#115&#99ar&#115 that it lea&#118e&#115 &#111n y&#111u.  Many time&#115, &#115&#111meb&#111dy that i&#115 &#118erbally abu&#115ed will feel a&#115 if they are &#111f little w&#111rth &#111r ha&#118e t&#111 deal with depre&#115&#115i&#111n f&#111r a &#118ery l&#111n&#103 time, e&#118en if the abu&#115e&#115 taken &#111ut &#111f the &#115ituati&#111n.  &#73f y&#111u feel that y&#111u are ha&#118in&#103 t&#111 deal with thi&#115 type &#111f a &#115ituati&#111n, it i&#115 be&#115t if y&#111u &#115eek &#115&#111me &#99&#111un&#115elin&#103 in &#111rder t&#111 try and &#103et thr&#111u&#103h it.

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13 comments on “Verbal Abuse

  1. How soon will you update your blog? I’m interested in reading some more information on this issue.

  2. Thank you for the verbal abuse article. I am finally ready to leave my verbally abusive husband but feel so alone since unknowing others are easily charmed by him. I realized it had to end when he turned the tables by saying I was verbally abusive to him when I told him our 13 year old daughter could not travel alone to Ireland and stay with her friend and uncle we had never met.

    I am somewhat worried that his rages will return in the divorce process but I still move forward. I know he is trashing me behind my back to the few members of his family who will listen.

    Thanks for reminding me I am not crazy.

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